for girl's that kind of this type --'

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with other & regardless of how much you blame someone. It will not change u. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. U may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming them but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about u. That is making u unhappy & insecure, Girl! :D

XOXO